Pope Francis spoke on Sunday, seeking to encourage married couples during the pandemic as he acknowledged the crisis possibly aggravated some familial problems.
He urged couples to be open to seeking help and to remember that the three key words in a marriage are ‘please’, ‘sorry’ and ‘thank you’. Penning his letter to married couples, he wanted it to be his Christmas present to those in marriage.
He urged them to keep having children and fight the ‘demographic winter’, which has led to one of the lowest birthrates in the world in Italy.
He said that despite not being born into an exceptional, problem-free family, ‘family is our story – everyone has to think: It’s my story. They are our roots. If we cut them, life dries up.’
Acknowledging how lockdowns forced many families to spend more time together, he also addressed that this meant testing the patience of parents and siblings alike. This could have led to some real difficulties.
“Pre-existing problems were aggravated, creating conflicts that in some cases became almost unbearable. Many even experienced the breakup of a relationship,” Francis wrote.
He offered his closeness to families and reminded parents of how difficult break-ups of marriages are on children. He encouraged everyone to seek help to try to overcome conflicts.
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